like full on telling someone they made my life worse and they should feel bad and I don't forgive them is something I don't do very often and I'm glad I finally have that courage after so long, instead of just saying "its ok"
Theres a huge push by people online to forgive everyone, and that you're not allowed to be mad or traumatized after something if someone hurts you if said person is "sorry" about it, but like, being able to tell someone "Im still hurting from the pain you caused" is not a evil thing, and letting them know that simply being sorry isn't going to fix things isn't evil either
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in reply to Chalk Llate •Theres a huge push by people online to forgive everyone, and that you're not allowed to be mad or traumatized after something if someone hurts you if said person is "sorry" about it, but like, being able to tell someone "Im still hurting from the pain you caused" is not a evil thing, and letting them know that simply being sorry isn't going to fix things isn't evil either
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